27.8.06

Tallinn, Estonia & TLC

On Sunday afternoon in Tallinn's town square, two people born on the same day of the same year got up from their table and danced. They were inspired by a couple that were at least twice their age who had already been dancing for a few songs. They told their waitress that they were going to dance the kaerajaan.

As to the quality of their rendition of kaerajaan, the Americans decided to believe the waitress when she said it was great. And did it matter? Just to think of dancing Estonia's national dance on one of Estonia's independence days was grand.

On 20 August 1991, Estonia formally declared its independence as a nation. Fifteen years later, I visited Estonia's capital city with two co-workers and a friend. We took an early morning, 90-minute ferry from Helsinki, arriving in time for a mid-morning coffee and breakfast to energize us for a walk through the medieval streets, past the Orthodox and Lutheran churches and many Hanseatic buildings.

It took all of three hours to walk the town, we then stopped for a lunch and went to the town square to see what sort of independence day celebration might ensue. Before anyone took the stage, most of the seats in the square were taken, but we were able to get a table at one of the bars with a view of the stage. And so we sat and awaited the show as we savoured our Ale Coqs.

The show began with an adorable, seven year-old girl singing the Estonian national anthem. Maybe it was the beer, but tears came close to my eyes as I listened to her song. After this, Estonia's president, Tallinn's mayor and another military figure took their turn on the stage, with other patriotic songs interspersed among the speeches.

I did not understand a word of Estonian, but I appreciated the importance of national pride to a country has mostly been subject to larger powers throughout its history. And I thought of a comment from one of the Estonians I had met that day: In 1917, Estonia declared its independence from Russia; in 1991, Estonia declared its independence from the USSR; and in 2004, Estonia joined the European Union. In any case, let's hope that the EU is a more beneficial larger power than tsarist Russia or the Soviet Union ever was.

After the speeches and patriotic songs, the melodies took a definite festive turn. It was at this time that the aged couple were dancing something like a polka, but not identifiable to us or to the wait staff in our restaurant. This, of course, did not inhibit my desire to try to dance to the music. And so, Rita and I danced what we believed to be the kaerajaan. Does the name of the dance matter? I think not.

After the dance we learned more about Estonian and Russian culture from our servers (Maria and Trinu, or SDG), ate our dinner, and then walked back to the ferry. On the ferry to Tallinn, I spoke to an Estonian girl the whole time and I never got to the observation deck. So, Rita and I made a point of visiting the deck on the way back. There is little in this world quite so pleasing to me as being on a boat and feeling the wind in my face. Even more so when the weather is pleasant!

The long Sunday in Tallinn came one day after a very long day in Helsinki, and that after a late night, and, I think, I felt the consequences on Monday morning. I had nasal congestion that lasted until recently. It didn't help when, after dinner at Aino's on Monday, I went to Fazer's for dessert. Truffle ice cream and a cinnamon roll, to be exact. And then I learned of TLC's passing on Tuesday, and on Wednesday I decided to leave a day early, so I stayed at the office until after 7:00 to make sure that the work would get done in my absence.

Of course, our Finnish counterpart chose a night like that to invite us to dinner. No matter, we went to Porvoo for a lovely dinner overlooking a lake. Porvoo is Finland's second oldest town, almost 700 years old, and it includes many cobblestones, as previously mentioned, great views of the lake from the hilly city centre. Despite wondering whether I would have time to pack and sleep off the cold before my 5:30 AM taxi-ride to the airport, I decided to imbibe a few glasses of wine along with my escargot and lamb dinner... Later on, when reception woke me up with a call at 5:37 to let me know that my taxi was there; I sort of regreted the over-exertion.

TLC
Despite the full days in Helsinki, I managed to get to Chicago in time to join friends and visit the wake of our friend, Tracy. Here, I'm not sure what to write.

Suffice it to say that I still expect a response from her from an email I sent on Monday morning (Helsinki time). She was thinking about flying to Puerto Rico to visit me; she might have joined another friend, and the three of us would have enjoyed San Juan in style.

And let me add that every summer was more enjoyable for her part in it. And now, as summer 2006 comes to an end, more than just a terrestrial season has passed; a life has ended, a body no longer moves on this earth, a personality no longer contributes to my life.

I'll conclude with the fact that good memories and thoughts of her have swarmed in my mind in the last five days, from Burger Time to Boise, Idaho. Her spirit will be carried onward in the memories of the likes of me and her other, dearer friends. Meanwhile, I'm still waiting for her response about Puerto Rico...

22.8.06

Helsinki, Tallinn, Tragedy

Helsinki is described below with a series of words and phrases that will mean very little to anyone other than me and the friends who were with me. Tallinn could be described with a similar series of thoughts; I hope to do that soon.

Yesterday morning also merits many more words, but I'm not ready to write them yet. On Tuesday morning I learned of the death of a friend of mine. This is when it's hard to be 5,000 miles from home. The wake is tomorrow, funeral Friday. I'm not sure if I'll be able to fly back. I have to wait until people in Chicago wake up.

Helsinki, Finland

Finn Air, cockpit view, Fazer's Geisha, Scandic Marski, kiitos, tacksi, yksi, kaksi, kolme, neljä, hyvää...ää, "that famous monument", Finnish lesson, esplanade, Lapin Kulta, Lordi, menna, senna, hen, HIM, singular and sundry fashion sense, olut on a bench, La Bodega, butt-buss, Tex-Mex place, 8:30 AM on Saturday, market, pulla, post cards, Suomenlinna, Spanish, lighthouse on a church, UNESCO, swammakammalanalannakanna, Hanseatic, Sibelius, Cafe Kämp, "Anteeksi, saisinko laskun", long amble, Church in the Rock, Finnish microbrew, smoke beer -- it tastes as bad as it sounds, yksi, kaksi, cuusi? the monument, the bus, the tacksi, the long walk back, siesta, Boathouse, closed, "saisinko pöydän neljälle", we're in, perch, seafood starter, aurora borealis, hate, clouds, nope, "revontulet", jetty back, Fazer's closed, Teaterri, scary man, hot Finns, early night, Estonia, Robert's Coffee, head cold, Aino, Fazer's open.

"Menna? Hyvää kiitos!"

15.8.06

Paris for the weekend, and now back in Upplands Väsby

It was so great to travel with just a backpack last weekend. I think that the staff at Le Meridien were a little confused, but they welcomed me nonetheless. A few hours after my arrival, Ceebs arrived on schedule at 11:30 PM on Friday night and, after a quick shower, we opened a bottle of wine, quaffed a glass, and then went for a long walk to the Seine river and back. Thus began our weekend.

Paris is beautiful. The Seine, the boulevards, the Eiffel, statues throughout the city. On Saturday morning, after croissants and coffee at Le Meridien, Ceebs and I took the Metro to Sacre Cour. This beacon on a hill offers some of the best views in Paris and, as a building, it certainly pleases the eye.

After Sacre Cour, we hopped on another Metro to the Ile d' Cite, where we saw Saint Chapelle and Notre Dame. Having visited the key holy sites, we went in search of lunch. Then, after stopping for a crepe, we went for a long amble to the Louvre, down the Champs d' Elysee, around the Arc d' Triomphe, to the Bois de Boulogne, before heading to the Eiffel Tower. Did I mention that Paris is a gorgeous city!

We arrived at the Eiffel Tower in time to go up, take pictures, then come down and witness the twilight light show that happens most days just before sunset. The lights on The Tower blink alternately for an amazing spectacle. We spent a few minutes documenting the moment with video and photos.

After the Eiffel, we went back to the hotel to refresh ourselves for an 11:00 PM dinner at Montparnasse 1900. We dined right with escargot, steak and duck as entrees, then a plate of cheeses for dessert. A Burgundy Margeaux accompanied dinner, while a port came with the cheese.

And, so, a full day ended when we closed the restaurant down after 1:00 AM. Saturday was great both for the full tour of Paris and for the chance to amble in Paris with a friend who is quickly approaching a momentous change of pace in his life.

On Sunday, Ceebs left after breakfast, and I went for one last walk through the city before I hopped on the Metro. I found a lovely outdoor market between the lanes of one of Paris' boulevards. Cheese, salmon, steak, fruits, vegetables, and more were for sale. I thought about buying something, but I wouldn't really have any use for it for at least 2 weeks, and by then the stuff would have rot.

In the market I did overhear one American woman ask her husband if they should just go to the nearest Starbucks. A Frenchman interjected with what I presumed to be sarcastic agreement before I could suggest an alternative to them. And so I kept on walking.

Much of the weekend was spent walking through the rain, but that did not dampen a perfectly delightful time. The companionship of a good friend and the cheerfulness of random Parisians left me smiling as I took the Metro back to Charles de Gualle, and on to my hotel in Sweden.

11.8.06

Arlanda...and peace

Here I sit in Arlanda International Airport, awaiting my flight to Charles DeGaulle. Thank goodness that in one small part of the world a man can fly from one country to another without unending security lines and with liquid, electronic devices and carry-on luggage! Call me a sceptic, call me naive, call me a pig-headed libertarian, but I oppose the overreaction of the United States and the United Kingdom to the recent terrorist threat. Colleagues of mine will be flying across the pond without their iPods, laptops and, well, just about anything else at their side tomorrow. I look forward to hearing their stories, but I wish they weren't subject to such knee-jerk control measures

It's been a quiet week in Sweden, my ancestral homeland. Each night the sun sets, and the forests beckon me. A few nights ago the full moon even called my name. I've enjoyed seeing a mother nursing her child in the office, a father, who happens to be the financial manager of the Swedish subsidiary, leave before 5:00 PM each day to pick up his twins because his wife is out of town on business.

The fact that I would have to pay a nominal fee for a plastic bag at the Ica grocery store wasn't necessary to convince me not to use a bag to carry my few items a few blocks; but I liked that Ica charged others for such extras. Recycling bins are abundant in the office and in my hotel. And I have to put my keycard into a slot in my hotel to turn the electricity on in the room.

Today I spoke with a Swedish contemporary and colleague who has been studying for 8+ years. College is free here, in fact she receives a stipend of approximately SEK 2,000 (USD 300) as long as she studies full time. Meanwhile, it seems that most cabbies and housekeepers I meet are Swedish nationals. That is not to say that there are no immigrants, just that it seems that Swedes can live off the wages of many honest occupations.

I like Sweden. I've often said that it's my favourite non-Hispanic country (for the record, I count the US as a Hispanic country). The blonde hair and golden tans are attractive. The soft-spoken confidence and efficiency is endearing. The regard for the environment and others is inspiring. And so, even in a quiet week in the outskirts of Sweden, a pleasant week has passed.

Now, look out Paris, for I shall roam your streets within hours!

7.8.06

Uvulitis in Małopolska

A perfect ending to a perfect adventure: uvulitis. For the second time in my life, I woke up after a horseradish-laden dinner and a long night of drinking to find my uvula swollen to the point of making it difficult for me to talk without feeling a strong gag reflex. Thankfully, over the course of Sunday, my uvula deflated to a normal size and I can now swallow and speak without discomfort.

I must say that my six day adventure in Małopolska left me wishing that I could take more time to get to know the area. And to see this area with good friends and adopted family greatly enhanced the pleasure.

First, I should summarize the "where?"s and "what?"s. On Saturday afternoon, Mark and I arrived in Dublin, where we walked around the city, saw Trinity College, went to the St. James Gate Brewery and celebrated a Pink Shirt Night. We slept altogether too much on Sunday morning (9 hours) and woke up in time for Mark to go through the Guinness Brewery tour and for me to write post cards and meander. We met up with an Irish friend of mine, Liam, that evening and, after Liam went home to Wicklow (a suburb), Mark and I closed down the bars again. This left us a short time to sleep before catching an early morning flight to Krakow on Monday morning.

Mark’s Vuyek Jusef and cousins Sabina and Andzrej greeted us as we left the customs area in Krakow’s airport. We looked around for Ceebs and texted Allan to see how far from the airport he was. Allan texted back that Ceebs had missed his flight and that he was stuck in traffic, but an hour away. Of course, we thought he was kidding; who misses an international flight? But, as it turned out, Ceebs would not be coming until the next day, so we decided to leave in Vukek Jusef’s auto and have Allan meet us in the town where his family lives.

It soon became apparent that Allan was frustrated in traffic and would prefer not to navigate his way to a small town, so we pulled over in Libertow to wait for Allan at a gas station. Allan looked exasperated when we saw him in Libertow. The drive from Bratislava took eight hours instead of the four hours suggested by mapping programs. We soon learned that traffic in parts of Małopolska were interminably bothersome!

It took four hours to drive 120 kilometres to Vuyek Jusef’s house. Allan, Andzrej and I took a few short cuts that ended up getting us there at the same time that Vujek Jusef arrived. The traffic was unbearable, but when we arrived at the Basara family home, the warm hospitality and great food and company soon caused us to forget the long hours in traffic. Chocha Ilena cooked us some soup, cotlata (pork cutlets) and potatoes, and after dinner we sat around their patio talking and drinking until well after midnight!

We met Mark’s three uncles (Jusef, Michaul, Bobek), aunt (Ilena), and three cousins (Sabina, Richard, Andzrej). Most of the conversations were in Polish and I participated with translation assistance from Mark or his cousins. Allan and I immediately felt like one of the family, and I would count that night’s fellowship as one of the highlights of the trip.

The next morning we awoke rather late, ate a Polish breakfast, and Allan, Andzrej and I went back toward Krakow to pick up Ceebs. We stopped in Bochnia on the way to research my great-grandmother’s family. We stopped at the first church we saw in town where we knocked on the parsonage door. While we were loitering, a nun asked us if we needed help and Andzrej asked her if anyone was available to review baptism, birth or confirmation records of my ancestor from the years1890 – 1910. Soon thereafter, a charming Polish priest invited us into his office and asked about my story and kindly told us that we should go to the oldest parish in Bochnia, where they are more likely to have old records. He began giving us directions to the church, but then he decided he would simply drive us there and introduce us to the other parish priest.

The parish priest from the older Bochnia church was equally helpful and nice, although he did have a very gruff demeanor. At one point, he even told Andzrej that if my mother spoke Polish, why don’t I speak Polish? Obviously, some things were lost in translation, but I didn’t bother to correct him. And, at the end of the day, I will need to look further back into documents from Kansas for the correct spelling of my great-grandmother’s name and the parish in which she was baptized before I can further research my roots in Poland. I plan to do this and to fax new questions to the Bochnia church soon!

After our visit in Bochnia, we picked up Ceebs in the airport and then we decided to stop by Bochnia on the way back to the Basara household. I took a picture of the town square, the main church, and I bought a book on the history of Bochnia. Ceebs, Allan, Andzrej and I then had a Tyskie in the town square before we headed back to the Basara’s house.

During the first night’s conversation, Vuyek Jusef promised to have pierogi ruskis for us if we came to stay with them for a second night. We did not need such enticement, but we thoroughly enjoyed some authentic pierogis on Tuesday night with the family. After pierogis, we went to Andzrej’s girlfriend’s (Ania) house for a kielbasa barbecue. Ania’s family lives across the street, so it was a very short walk. Once again, we enjoyed conversations with Mark’s and Ania’s family.

On Wednesday morning, we had pierogis for breakfast and left at around 11:00 AM for Dembica, where Sabina works. I said my goodbyes to the uncles and aunt in the morning, and we said goodbye to the cousins after eating ice cream together in Dembica. Sabina will be getting married next August, so Allan, Ceebs and I have been invited. I have every intention of coming back next August for the wedding and other adventures!

Our road trip officially began as the four of us got into the car and headed toward Bielice. We got there just in time to get to visit the salt mines. Allan chose not to visit the salt mines (it would have been his second time) and instead he found a place for us to stay. We stayed at a couple’s house up the street from the main square for 100 zloty (US$ 30). Not a bad deal!

The next morning we got off to an early start and drove to Czestochowa. Along the way, we stopped for some photo-ops at rock formations and castles. We also wandered for a while in the only desert in Central Europe. That’s right, desert. Apparently, this desert is becoming overcome by vegetation, however, so at least in one part of the world the de-desertification is in place.

In Czestochowa, we saw the Black Madonna and the church grounds around it. Unfortunately, the only sight to see in Czestochowa is the church grounds, so we left town immediately after we ate dinner. So, on Thursday night we headed to Krakow in search of a hostel.

We shopped at a few hostels before finding the perfect one: Orange Hostel. It truly doesn’t get better for four Illini alums. And, as it cost 40 zloty/person, we were consistent with our low-budget theme.

After checking in, Allan, Mark and I went out on the town. We went into one of Krakow’s cellar bars and grabbed a drink. What was originally going to be a one drink night, turned into a bar crawl. At the second bar, Allan secured some clove cigarettes. To make a long story short, Mark went home earlier than Allan and I. Allan and I closed down the last pub and ate kebabs and had a random conversation with two guys from Ulster to kill time before we had to leave for Auschwitz. A few hours earlier we had made the decision that returning to the hostel for sleep would risk us not waking up timely for our big day.

By 7:30 AM, the four of us were on our way to Auschwitz. We arrived well before the first English-language guided tour at 10:00 AM. We took that tour and tried to absorb the gravity of what happened under a fascist state not too long ago.

The experience spurred many discussions among us, including whether we should be worried about our own government and its tendency toward consolidation of power and disregard for the rights of individuals. Specifically, the so-called “War on Terror” could be used by those in power to justify the taking away of citizen’s right in the name of ‘protecting’ those citizens.

At the end of the tour, our guide said that the most important thing we can do is to remember what happened here. I think an even more important activity would be for each citizen to be ever-vigilant of his government and to oppose such things as imprisonment without charge, regardless of the category of person for which these rights are stripped. Okay, that’s all the politicking I’ll do!

After Auschwitz, we went to Wadowice, where Karol Wojtla was born and raised. We saw the church and the apartment wherein he spent much of his early years. The town itself had a very nice town center and ambience.

As Ceebs was much more interested in this town than Allan, Mark and I were, we left him there and went on to Zakopane in the Tatra Mountains. We stayed in a cabin in Zakopane. Although it had rained most of the day, we found enough kindling and wood to start a decent fire and roast our kielbasa for kielbasa sandwiches. We enjoyed the fire for a while and then went into downtown Zakopane for a beer. At midnight, we headed back, being very exhausted.

I slept well that night in the cabin and woke up fairly early. The three of us were packed and we hit the trails a little after 8:00. The scenery and fresh air of the mountains were amazing! But, we had decided to go for a quick hike, so we returned to the campsite before noon, and were on our way to Slovakia for the Slovak national dish by 12:00 PM.

We stopped in Zaidr, and went to one of its three restaurants to try the national dish. The dish consists of a gnocchi-like substance in a lamb cheese sauce with bits of bacon. It was very hearty and tasty. Before dinner we had stopped at the local pastry shop (more like someone’s home), so we ate those on the car ride out of Slovakia.

After lunch, we drove directly to Krakow, and we checked into the Sheraton by 5:00 PM. We had invited about 12 people to PSN Krakow during the long Thursday night out. We told them to wear a pink shirt and meet us at the bell tower at 6:00 PM. Allan and I rushed to the bell tower on the odd chance that new friends would come to meet us. Unless they came at 6:00 and left before 6:22, we had no random participants, but we did run into two of the invitees, albeit without their pink shirts on! The only thing I will say about Pink Shirt Night Krakow is that it started out at a lovely Polish restaurant where I ate a little too much horseradish sauce, and, as always, it was a great success.

That takes me to Sunday, the day that Ceebs left for Interlachen, Mark returned to New York City, and Allan drove back to Slovakia. I flew to Sweden, where I’ll be working. The trip was everything a guy could want out of a road trip with friends through a beautiful countryside and in a great country. My head is full of fond memories from so much time shared with great people, both old friends and newly adopted family.

And now it’s back to work so that I can have a similar experience soon! I’ve said it before; I’ll say it again: Life is good.

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